Jul 23, 2011

Buddies- The Before & Now...

Penned down by Rachana Vaidya at 11:32 PM
Miss them like crazy! <3
        When we were bachhas life was easy na? One group of awesome friends, and that's all we needed to be happy. After 8th when studies became unbearable and we just had to join classes, we all again ended up going to the same classes. Life was beautiful. Morning school mai chill karo, ghar ja ke nashta karo phir wapas classes mai timepass karo. And all this with the same group of friends. Those darlings who know you in such detail, its scary sometimes. They can order your food before you can even reach the restaurant coz they know what you would love to eat that day. They know about your silly baseless insecurities on which they make fun of you but dare anyone else say something, they'll defend you like crazy.
      Fast forward to now and I realize there is nothing as amazing as those friendships. Sure all my friends are still great. And i'm still in touch with most of my school friends. But now there is a school friends group, junior college group, senior college group and diploma class group.
     Still despite so many friends, i never get that feeling which i used to get with only one group. The feeling like we had one life together. Now its like everyone has their own life and we are only making time for each other whenever we can. Brings such loneliness sometimes.

4 opinions:

Viya ;) on Jul 23, 2011, 11:39:00 PM said...

I couldn't agree more... :( .. I guess as we grow older, these groups increase to work friends, gym.. yoga.. some class if u join.. :| ..
man! life was so much easier as a kid..

Rachana on Jul 23, 2011, 11:48:00 PM said...

Yeah seriously..so uncomplicated it was before..and now the number of friends increases but emotions are at a standstill :(

Red Handed on Jul 24, 2011, 7:16:00 AM said...

Nothing can ever supercede the school friends gang. They remain stronger even if u dont give them time now. Even if u make a call once in a bluemoon, it feels like you hv missed nothing.

Rachana on Jul 24, 2011, 1:17:00 PM said...

@Red Handed- Yeah seeriously they were the best gang ever!

 

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